Understand what to express
Sexting is not just about sending an image of the pee pee and waiting for anyone to snag the bait. This is actually the 21st century. The hunting and gathering society has long been abolished by language and sophisticated communication. Therefore, use it. If you instigate a sext, ensure that you really know where you are going for. Lack of knowledge of what to say can lead to missing out on a possible meet up later tonight or maybe even more. Should you received the message, do not freak out and talk nonsense. That person knows what she or he wants and you should understand what you would like. Knowing what to say, you are able to conclude in short, sweet sentences. Don’t put much psychology inside it. Just understand what there are here.

Be direct
Keeping it short and sweet means being direct. It is a potential loss if you are somebody who has a lot hang-up filled with ifs and buts. Yes, you need to know how to have fun with words but it doesn’t have to become Shakespearean. Being direct also removes the chances of becoming lost in translation. This means knowing your language and keeping it simple yet witty. If you are fond of using acronyms, be cautious. Though your intentions might be “innocent” it may seem to appear as if you are making fun of him or her and this could lead to rejection and well, additionally they might block you when they find your messages and acronyms too weird.

Edit your text
This is related to being clear and to the point. Sexting relies on fast yet effective communication. Read your text if. Sometimes, we have slips that people do not intend to type in. This may be your libido or something like that but once it has been said, it’s done. The same goes with your multimedia messages. You need to look sultry, macho or sexy? Learn how to entice and don’t provide them with the entire entree. Again, unless they request it, don’t go the vulgar range of sexting. Learn how to entice and edit your messages so that you will be on the safe yet sure side that their response will be to your benefit.